First of all, it is very important to have a well and firm support system at home so that your child can have a normal and satisfied life that is full of achievements and fulfilled ambitions. The first goal for you as a parent is to help and protect but also to help your child to feel confident and useful. In this way, the child will develop a feeling for purpose, sense, and protection. We need to start educating our children before they go to school and by education, we mean the introduction and first steps to socialization. If you want to help your child and enhance it’s learning abilities and help for future studying such as academic performance, you will need to be consistent, dedicated, patient. Your primary task is to develop a child who is balanced and happy but most importantly happy with his/her results.
You need to encourage special skills and abilities.
Every child is unique and has a different set of skills and talents. These things can be seen in the classroom in the school, but there are a lot of children who show themselves in their best light usually after school. Their teachers don’t see much of them, or they aren’t spotted by their teachers just because they didn’t show their special skill in school. So it is very important to have activities with your child such as a music class where you are involved or some martial arts lesson to free and open their minds. Of course, your money doesn’t need to be spent for those activities.
Unstructured play is very important and doesn’t underestimate it. For example, playing football or catch in your backyard, or dancing in your bedroom or living room, or any other type of playing can provide opportunities for spiritual, physical, emotional, personal and intellectual development. It is also recommended to find a hobby for you. It is recommended to allow your child to see you in other activities and in that way it will or might inspire him/her to do something like you.
Always praise efforts and applaud.
When we talk about parenting, it is suggested that praising your children or child for his/her work is much better than to tell him/her that he/she is smart, talented or a genius. Most of the people with fixed mind-set do not accept or accept challenges with less interest because they believe they are natural or born geniuses or natural talents. Those who have growth mind-set are usually much more willing to accept the challenge and face them with hard work, and that is because they believe that they will learn new skills. We all know that grades do not motivate the best student to succeed. The success is won by his/her inner drive for learning.
Always respect different techniques and learning styles.
Most of us need silence to do our jobs effectively, but maybe our child needs music or any other sound to be productive. Children usually don’t need a noise-free room or environment. It is important to realize what is the best way and environment for a child to learn whether it is music in the background or something else.